Younger son update: Seems he has a definite job at the local supermarket. He has to join their union. I haven't spoken with him. I got this news from his father.

Exhusband: I don't know this man. He has never been communicative and now he calls me at least 4 times a week. He even tells me stuff like he is lonely. He is definitely more open to his feelings.

Older son: I can't get a hold of him. I've left about 8 voicemails in the past two weeks. He's a grown man but I still worry.

Migraine: PMSing, rainy weather, woke up at 5:45 am. I'll let you figure it out ;-)